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Overcoming Obstacles to LeadershipReview Date: 2008-01-07
Overcoming the Dark Side of Leadership: The Paradox of Personal DysfunctionReview Date: 2007-12-28
Ministry MustReview Date: 2007-08-23
Overcoming the Dark Side of LeadershipReview Date: 2007-07-18
Why Do Christian Leaders So Often Fall, and Fall Hard?Review Date: 2006-12-24
The book does an excellent job of showing the painful reality of victory that leaders' dark sides have accomplished over many Christian leaders. The dark sides of these leaders do not develop and appear over night, but downfalls of Christian leaders happen slowly, often so subtlety that the leaders often are blind to the development. A lot of psychology is used to explain how the different types of `dark sides' develop and control leaders. And self-tests available in the book are helpful to discover if you personally may be susceptible to one of the different types of `dark sides'.
The last part of the book is the most helpful, showing HOW to overcome the dark side of leadership. Five helpful steps are provided for leaders to follow in order to prevent the dark side from gaining control. First, the leader must recognize the dark side. Second, the leader must examine his or her past. Third, the leader must resist unrealistic expectations. Fourth, the leader must be continually feeding himself or herself and checking himself or herself. And finally, the leader must have a strong sense of self-identity in Christ. I believe these are very helpful and a chapter is devoted to each of these steps.
The book is written very well, and especially helpful are the numerous examples and illustrations (including the lives of the authors). The book does a great job of showing the urgency of this issue, but it doesn't stop there. A well thought `remedy' is given for overcoming the dark side, and it isn't an easy fix that you find in many self-improvement books. I believe any Christian leader would do well to read this book and apply it to his or her life.
I have always recognized the existence of my dark side, but I have never understood the complexity of it. Although I had a hard time placing myself into one of the four types of the dark side given in the book, I could see things that I could possibly be susceptible to and I also saw things that I have actually experienced in the past as a result of my dark side.
Especially helpful were the five steps at the end of the book. I believe these steps are founded upon biblical principles, and they are very simple, but it is amazing how hard it is for Christians (and leaders specifically) to apply these truths. I learned that more accountability would be helpful in my life. I was also reminded that having a firm, continual acceptance of my identity in Christ is vitally important. So many problems from the dark side come from insecurity issues and issues with our relationships, but if the Christian leader understands his identity and security in Christ and also that this relationship is the most important relationship that can possibly be cultivated, these problems can be avoided. This leadership was a great encouragement to me.

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Great Book for ParentsReview Date: 2004-05-03
Sincerely,
Jeffrey McAndrew
Author of "Our Brown-Eyed Boy"
Is there such as thing as too inclusive?Review Date: 2005-06-20
As others have stated she regularly makes mention of her challenges parenting a child with a cleft lip and pallete as a medium to relate to her reader and validate her expertise in writing the book. This approach did not sit well with me. A cleft pallete is certainly a hard thing for any parent and child to face, but I don't feel most would define it as making a child 'special needs'.
The author would have been better off, just writing the book based on her research and not relating her story or by gearing it to parents of children with mild birth defects.
Not recommendedReview Date: 2003-06-18
A MUST-READ FOR PARENTS AND PROFESSIONALSReview Date: 2003-05-02
What I love about SPECIAL KIDS NEED SPECIAL PARENTS, besides the fact that it gives practical, upbeat advice, is that it's not just one person's perspective or story. Many, many people (professionals and family members as well as others across the country) put in their "two-cents." And their "two cents" are great! Indepth, on-target insights, advice and even, wisdom. The book is inspirational, spiritual, practical and very well written.
Both of my children have different special needs--one is on the austism spectrum and the other has had a slew of medical challenges. (She is mildly delayed and has learning disabilities.) Honestly, SPECIAL KIDS NEED SPECIAL PARENTS was a lifesaver. It helped us understand ourselves and our dynamics so we could cope better with the situations at hand.
It is an engaging and easy read. The author put a summary at the back of each chapter, so you can get the highlights of the chapter in a snatch if you're too tired to read. Recently, I copied the summary page at the end of the advocacy chapter and took it to a school meeting so I could remember what to say. Believe it or not, using the tips and approaches this author provided, helped me get extra services for my daughter!
What's more, there's a fabulous resource guide--about 40 pages--in the back of the book.
If you have or even work with a child with special needs, this book is an absolute MUST. It is unique and answers so many questions for so many types of people.
I want to thank the author for writing SPECIAL KIDS NEED SPECIAL PARENTS. You really gave us something wonderful.
Should be required reading for parents and professionalsReview Date: 2002-04-06
The book is easy-to-read and enabled me to deal with some complex issues I was having within my own family. It is exhaustively researched and full of compassion. I carry this book with me--the pages are dogeared and underlined. Thank you Ms. Lavin for your help!

Church as SystemReview Date: 2007-11-17
A Practical Guide to a Healthy ChurchReview Date: 2007-10-23
It is crucial that we acknowledge, observe, understand and interact with the emotional system within a church, group or institution. Emotional skills development is essential to the life, health and well being of the person as well as the church, group or organization.
This was a very interesting and practical book.
Help for merging churchesReview Date: 2006-11-04
Very helpfulReview Date: 2006-10-20
The book incorporates the learnings of family systems theory and applies them to a congregational setting. Richardson discusses anxiety, forces for togetherness and individuality, pursuers and distancers, fusion and differentiation, patterns of reactivity (including compliance, rebellion, power struggle, and emotional distancing), triangles, and leadership. One chapter is devoted to "signs of serious problems in a church" (which includes a section on overfunctioning and underfunctioning). Along the way, Richardson offers some reflection on biblical passages to support the theory, though it felt to me as if this material were added in later, after the bulk of the book had been presented; the biblical material did not feel integrated into the whole of the book.
One chapter is devoted to birth order and leadership style, drawing on the work of Walter Toman. Personally, I have not found Toman's work as helpful (or as "on-target") as I have found Bowen's family systems theory.
The final two chapters, which are very helpful, are devoted to "assessing your congregation's emotional system" and "becoming a better leader" (which includes a discussion about self-differentiation and the negative reactions that differentiation usually leads to, initially).
All in all, this is a very helpful book. I found it to be a useful summary of what I had learned about family systems theory and its applicability to congregational settings from other writers, notably Edwin Friedman. Richardson does not write with the wit and passion that Friedman writes with, making this book to be somewhat more bland, but Richardson's book may be more organized than Friedman's books are. After soaking in Friedman, I did not find much here that was new. Also, if I hadn't soaked in Friedman, I'm not sure I would have fully grasped the power of the model that Richardson offers. This is a very helpful book; I just wish that reading it were a bit more exciting!
Must read!Review Date: 2007-01-09

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A MUST HAVE for new mumsReview Date: 2008-07-06
I tried all the little tricks on my 3 yo niece who cried (way too much in my opinion) and had no boundaries and was a bit difficult to be around with.
Literally everything in the book worked for the first try.
Wow.
(We have two friends who are childcare professionals and they both rave about this way of raising children. Even the WHO did a study on this system!)
It is written in no non-sense way, very straight forward and sometimes very awakening when you realize that you make those particular mistakes used as an example in the book.
I recommend this book to all mums. IT IS A MUST HAVE!
GerberReview Date: 2007-05-09
Great intro to RIEReview Date: 2007-07-15
Dr. Jenn Berman
www.DoctorJenn.com
Author of The A to Z Guide to Raising Happy, Confident Kids
Our Secret Guide to successful childReview Date: 2006-09-16
mixed feelingsReview Date: 2007-06-30


A "Must Read" if You Work with People with Developmental DisabilitiesReview Date: 2007-11-21
A Much Needed WorkReview Date: 2007-08-01
People need to knowReview Date: 2007-06-05
Raymond's Room: Right ONReview Date: 2007-04-26
What about the Disability Consultant Complex?Review Date: 2008-01-11
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Excellent informative reading for beginners in Adoption reaserch....Review Date: 2006-10-30
A great place to start!Review Date: 2006-08-12
Useful, but outdatedReview Date: 2007-02-17
FantasticReview Date: 2005-12-14
good resource like it says on the cover!Review Date: 2004-05-29
I also recommend:
For Late Discovery Adoptees: "Adoption Forum" by Kasey Hamner
For anyone touched or interested in a true-life story: "Whose Child?" by Kasey Hamner
"Primal Wound" by Nancy Verrier

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Information Packed!Review Date: 2001-05-15
It is unfortunate that in this day of managed health care we, as consumers, often have to be researchers and take control of our own health care. However, it is to our advantage that we have wonderfully informative references such as this!
Very usefulReview Date: 2002-02-24
The only problem is that it haslanguage that sometimes get too scientific to be understood.
Information Packed!Review Date: 2001-05-15
It is unfortunate that in this day of managed health care we, as consumers, often have to be researchers and take control of our own health care. However, it is to our advantage that we have wonderfully informative references such as this!
If you are looking for some answers, this is the book!Review Date: 2001-02-23
Good technical info, but not your best betReview Date: 2001-04-12

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Absolutely Essential!Review Date: 2002-11-10
Fine Arts of this book onlyReview Date: 2005-09-09
On page 239, the author talks about an African-American artist Henry O. Tanner and when the author writes "it would easy to imagine a story by looking at it"...I looked at it and still didn't understand the story. How can a regular person who has no experience in art be able to understand a painting?
On the same page, the author writes "light filetering in from the left makes a bright glow behind their heads, so that we tend to pay attention to this part of the painting." When I first look at the painting (black and white) I didn't notice the glowing heads...I noticed the father and son playing the banjo because they were only ones in black and white in the center of the picture! Many people have different ways of seeing art and how can an author says that "we tend to pay attention to..."?
Excellent Resource...Review Date: 2007-07-17
MTEL saverReview Date: 2007-01-09
A great basic for adding to your child's education at homeReview Date: 2005-09-05

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Exellent SeriesReview Date: 2008-09-20
Teach them the contents of the needs-to-know series, then the school text books will make sense.
Books to Build OnReview Date: 2008-03-05
Must Have ResourceReview Date: 2008-03-26
help the kidsReview Date: 2007-07-26
You have to help the kids, since the schols will not...here the the guide to all the sources.
Brilliant!Review Date: 2007-09-14
I recommend the NYTimes Books for Children and the The Read-Aloud Handbook book as well, but it's the Hirsch book, specifically the "Core Collection" recommendations, that has led me to the most interesting learning materials!
I also love that he's not afraid to refer to or at least mention quality out-of-print materials. What good is the Internet's vast book culture if not to find out-of-print materials that are wasting away on a back shelf in some store across the country? For example, he mentions a history series by Olive Beaupre Miller. I found a woman in Texas who was selling her set, they came yesterday, and man am I ever jealous! How come I didn't get to read those when *I* was younger? Another example of why I think OOP book should not be ignored in these kind of guides is a treasure I stumbled upon in a used bookstore the other day. "A Classical Storybook" by Morris Bishop is a treasure trove of Greek and Roman stories from the histories and poetry of the era. Enchanting! I went online, and as it turns out Morris Bishop was BFF with Vladmir Nabokov, was a hugely important Romantic literature scholar and apparently an altogether lovely man. Suffice it to say, I have ordered the medieval, Renaissance and Romantic storybooks for my children as well. If more reader guides mentioned these treasures of the past, I believe the spike in demand by interested parents would lead many of them to be reprinted. God love the profit motive!
Anyway, back to Hirsch: I'm relatively comfortable when it comes to identifying quality resources in the humanities, social sciences and liberal arts, but I'm a little foggier when it comes to most kinds of science and mathematics. I was thrilled to see that Hirsch gives those subjects their due as well, and I've already been thrilled to discover through him H.A. "Curious George" Rey's amazing books about constellations, astronomy and the night sky (The Stars: A New Way to See Them, Find the Constellations). What a treat!
I've been scribbling all over this book, taking notes, starring items and dog-earring pages. I can't say that's the case for most of the booklist books I've read, although expositionalish :) introduction to the Read-Aloud* guide will definitely been getting multiple reads from me.
Anyway, this book is highly admirable, and I hope it, itself, has many printings, revisions, expansions and future editions to come. Invaluable.

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Easy To Use Wordwork!Review Date: 2007-05-07
Great Book!Review Date: 2007-03-14
ULTIMATE WORD FAMILY BOOK!!!!!!!!Review Date: 2005-07-12
If you enjoyed her first book, you will be thrilled with this one, and if you are discovering this Reading Expert for the first time. . .congratulations!
Nothing else I have worked with has come close to providing as successful instruction for word families. . .as this book does.
Lessons are sequential. Lessons are user-friendly. Lessons will make you want to teach them (and we all know as teachers that that doesn't always happen!) Lessons will leave your kids feeling successful as word family learners!
Make sure you get two copies so that you still have one when your teaching partner borrows yours and keeps it forever.
Not what I expectedReview Date: 2006-02-26
Well laid-out book, but LACKINGReview Date: 2002-01-19
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The authors, Gary McIntosh and Samuel Rima speak from their own discovery of personal dysfunction and share how they recognized their dark side and began a life long journey of self discovery, healing, and fulfillment in their ministries.
Stories from the lives of well known public figures, from Biblical leaders, and from classical stories are used to illustrate the dysfunctions of the compulsive leader, the narcissistic leader, the paranoid leader, the codependent leader, and the passive-aggressive leader.
I personally found the "targeting insights," and "applying insights" features at the end of each chapter to be excellent tools for self examination and self discovery. The appendix listing available personality profiles, an accountability group covenant, a sample personal constitution, and a performance evaluation were also helpful resources.
Significant and relevant, this is an important and helpful book for pastors, and leadership at every level of church ministry.