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A WARRIOR WITH A HEARTReview Date: 2005-08-25
An EXCELLENT book!Review Date: 2001-03-20
Choppers, women in black, & a man who needs to learn!Review Date: 2001-09-25
Dane is a man in need of learning a lesson of life and Maya's just the woman to teach it to him....while finding herself in need of one as well!
As for the choppers and women in black....you'll just have to buy the book to get *those* answers!
Another priceless gem in the Morgan's Mercenaries Universe!Review Date: 2001-04-04
Highest recommendation---5 stars.
wrong synopsisReview Date: 2001-03-03

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The Art of Self-ReflectionReview Date: 2002-04-25
Insightful, readable, practicalReview Date: 2002-03-01
A Relationship BookReview Date: 2003-11-01
Naikan: Gratitude, Grace, and the Japanese Art of Self RefleReview Date: 2002-02-20
Simple exercises that the reader can do to train himselfReview Date: 2002-04-13

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So inciteful and honestReview Date: 2005-06-17
SEXUAL ABUSE AND RACISM ARE INTERCONNECTEDReview Date: 2005-10-10
Excellent Resource Review Date: 2005-07-07
Robin D. Stone, 2004, Broadway Books, NY. Hardcover ISBN 0- 7679-1344-2
I chose to review this book to gain a cultural perspective on the subject of sexual abuse. It was recommended to me by a reader of my book (Beyond the Tears: A True Survivor's Story) as study material for my Project for TEARS: Telling Everyone About Rape & Sexual Assault. I borrowed No Secrets, No Lies from the public library.
The author of No Secrets, No Lies is a survivor of sexual assault. She has been an editor for Essence magazine, The New York Times, the Boston Globe, the Detroit Free Press, and Family Circle. She also teaches journalism at New York University. This impressive writing experience is evident in her clear, concise, compassionate, and culturally enlightening work: No Secrets, No Lies. Throughout the book, Stone offers "Fast Facts" in the margin, adding relevant material to the readers' knowledge. For example, Stone states, "Blacks are sexually victimized in childhood at the same rate as Whites. In one survey, they reported being more severely abused with greater force." Stone cites her sources in an extensive "notes" section. She also offers a valuable resource list and index.
The title of the first chapter is: "Was It Sexual Abuse?" Stone writes, "For many of us, we have buried sexual abuse so deep into our psyches that we would never connect it to today's physical illnesses and pain, our depression or addiction, our inability to hold a job, get out of debt, find satisfaction in a relationship, nurture our children, or simply say no to people or situations that do us harm." Indeed. No matter the gender, race, religion, socio-economic class, or ethnicity, victims of sexual abuse will experience the devastating ramifications. Victims suffer initially with the abuse, then again with each result that limits our human potential. Stone tells the reader: "in addition to the trauma of sexual violation, survivors must also deal with the trauma of being born and raised in a racist and sexist culture." And therein lies the roots of our troubled society.
Stone offers case examples in each chapter. We read about Kim, who says, "I'm always afraid that people will leave if they see the real me." The "real me" is the child who was molested by her stepfather until she was nineteen; even as a young woman, he slapped her for resisting. Kim's mother kicked Kim out of the house, leaving Kim to fend for herself with friends. Kim learns that a relative had sexually abused her mother. This addresses the frightening fact that perpetration is all too often generational.
The author incorporates the limitations placed upon Black survivors. "When Blacks seek help from White institutions [they] find little sympathy or understanding." "Blacks [have] a deep mistrust of a majority White medical profession. Blacks have been slow to embrace traditional therapy." "We often find ourselves sitting across from a counselor who hasn't a clue about the complexities of our culture, our history, and our challenges, and who can only see our problems solely from a White or middle-class perspective." However, Stone encourages counseling: "We have historically turned to our own support systems...sister circles...but for many of us the problems associated with being sexually abused run far too deep for untrained experts to help us tackle them in a meaningful way." Stone tells the reader: "...experts have developed multicultural approaches to therapy that incorporate the values, customs, and traditions of non-Whites." In chapter four, Stone suggests methods to finding "African-Centered Healing." Stone uses a statement from Rhonda Wells-Wilbon, a social work professor and sexual assault survivor, to define "African-Centered" as: "using Africa as a geographical and cultural starting point for the study of African people." Stone then shares Rhonda Wells-Wilbon's Aya Model: Ten Steps Toward Healing" for a culturally sensitive method.
At the end of each chapter, the author offers a "Help Yourself" section. In chapter 5, "Protecting and Saving Our Children," Stone tells the reader to "act on suspicion" and "get involved." She also offers "The Child's Bill of Rights." In the final chapter, "Reconciliation...and Moving On" Stone offers exercises to confront an abuser, if the victim finds it necessary for healing.
This book is a must have for my resource library, so I promptly ordered my own copy, which is now available in paperback.
Highly InsightfulReview Date: 2005-01-07
Ms. Stone, an abuse survivor herself, realistically has written a one of a kind book that addresses the physical, emotional and psychological scarring and horrific effects of sexual abuse within the dysfunctional family. Through a collection of powerful and deep personal interviews with abuse victims, abusers and additional family members, "No secrets, No Lies" speaks out to survivors, parents, caregivers, family members and friends designating and furnishing detailed and practical steps for imperative healing.
The book is divided into three distinct parts. It covers immensely important material on the background and "WHYS" of child sexual abuse, interviews with more than thirty survivors and then easy to follow guidelines by professional experts who work with and treat the survivor and the abuser. Included also are compelling advice, poignant anecdotes, as well as contact information for legal help, therapists and advocacy groups throughout the USA. It provides invaluable insight necessary for overcoming and understanding the horrific, overwhelming experiences and effects for recovery and resolution.
This book is an eye opener that sexual abuse is wide spread, vastly occurring and must be recognized. The sexual abuser must be reported to the proper authorities, regardless of who it is because this is a criminal offense. The offense should be dealt with, the abuser charged and the acts eradicated for the sake of the innocent victim, the child. No longer should this evil atrocity be kept silent.
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Emily Means Willis
Just ask for helpReview Date: 2004-07-03
In most cases of sexual abuse, the victim is ignored or made to believe that what happened was just their imagination. Children are easy prey because the perpetrator can easily entice them with money, candy or toys, etc. The perpetrator can be anyone - a family member, the next-door neighbor, a school employee or the well-respected member of the church. Threats of bodily harm to the victim or members of his/her family, aids the perpetrator in committing this violation.
We are all under the assumption that only women are sexually abused, but there are a vast number of men who are abused by men and in some cases women. Most males do not report that they have been abused because of the label placed on them by society as growing up and becoming gay. They also deal with issues concerning their masculinity and have feelings of being inadequate and vulnerable.
Once a victim has revealed that they have been sexually abused, some are shunned by family members or made to feel that what happened was their fault. Victims with understanding family members, such in the case of Ms. Stone, sometimes years later, still suffer from being abused. Through Stone's self-help guides at the end of each chapter, and each survivor that shares their story, victims of sexual abuse will understand that what happened was not their fault.
This book was an eye opener for me because it brings to the forefront the effects that being sexually abused can have on the victims. Even after the abuse has stopped, victims continue to suffer. NO SECRETS NO LIES: HOW BLACK FAMILIES CAN HEAL FROM SEXUAL ABUSE was very informative and lists many resources for use by victims of sexual abuse.(...)


The content, lessons and imageries are versatile.Review Date: 2008-01-11
She reminds us all that the worst can happen to the best of us and that no one is above reproach. None of us is qualified to judge but it is our personal responsibility to be strong, to be kind, use the brain we have and be the best person we can be when we can. Carl was his best when he was.
Thanks Mrs.Stone for showing that we can survive betrayal, adversity and hardship without compromising our values.
Best Book I Ever ReadReview Date: 2007-10-01
AMAZINGReview Date: 2007-09-17
A real humanistic look at the life of a couple struck by the 21tst Centuries worst PlagueReview Date: 2007-06-14
Thanks Mrs. Stone for opening up to the world with your story. I loved it!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Wow! What a gripping story.Review Date: 2007-06-04

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HumorousReview Date: 2008-08-27
Great Family FunReview Date: 2008-08-21
The best calender we have had!Review Date: 2008-08-15
Always a lot of funReview Date: 2008-01-08
A great, fun calendar!Review Date: 2008-01-07

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Uplifting and LiberatingReview Date: 2005-05-01
How do we undertake this process? With a step-by-step approach that includes interviews with individuals successful in health care and wellness, business, and the arts, The Path to Personal Success and Freedoms guides us through exercises to identify and separate the negative messages and influences in our lives from the positive. Furthermore, it establishes a framework within which the positives can thrive as the negatives wither. Particularly satisfying are the many opportunities for the reader to write his or her own goals and establish personal affirmations tailored to the individual's needs and dreams. Thus, while it reflects its author's beliefs and sensibilities, the book also serves as a mirror for the reader to study the self and find his or her truest and most productive face.
Honest and refreshing, The Path to Personal Success and Freedom is a worthy read for both the searching and the cynical. Julie Belmont is a real person with real concerns who addresses the need of real people to find liberation and fulfillment. Well done.
Gary Earl Ross, author and playwright
A Book to Illuminate your PathReview Date: 2005-04-19
This book gets you Going and Taking Action!Review Date: 2005-04-16
This book is short, simple, concise and to the point. I read it in one evening and started implementing the tactics into my life the very next day. I am amazed about the positive changes it has brought about. I find taking action is so much easier then procrastinating and having to deal with yet another day of guilt.
It makes a great reference book to keep me on track. I want more books from this author, she writes as if she is talking to a friend. I love that!
Good for the SoulReview Date: 2005-04-15
Small Book With Big (and Powerful) IdeasReview Date: 2005-04-09

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Cigar Smoking for Social TerroristsReview Date: 2007-01-10
Extremely Funny!Review Date: 2000-07-14
A Wonderful blow against the pinched-souled PC puritansReview Date: 2000-06-26
Jack Riepe - A Very Funny ManReview Date: 2000-05-27
Outrageously funny!Review Date: 1999-11-13

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A Lovely book About RudiReview Date: 2008-04-23
A True Taste of YogaReview Date: 2001-06-11
Sharing a priceless relationshipReview Date: 2001-08-02
Faith tells the story of how this special person came into her life and tranformed her world, and her view herself. There are really nice pictures and illustrations as well as a recipe that adds nicely to the book. A wonderful, inspiring story!
Very InspiringReview Date: 2001-06-04
A Rare Privilege and a Precious GiftReview Date: 2001-05-28

Greatest reading about AfricaReview Date: 2000-02-21
Greatest reading about AfricaReview Date: 2000-02-21
Greatest reading about AfricaReview Date: 2000-02-21
Fundamentals of FundamentalismReview Date: 2002-02-06
Greatest reading about Middle East dilemmasReview Date: 2000-02-21

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A must have cookbookReview Date: 2008-09-30
Just like the other reviews say,recipes are easily laid out,simple,and ingredients are easy to get; or you may have them in your pantry already.
Plus,it's got a little of everything-not just indian recipes...something from each region,and appetizers,breakfasts,etc.
You could easily add meat to the recipes if you are not vegetarian. But definitely get this book-you will not be disappointed. My dad copied the recipe for Morrocan stew and added meat to his.
I have given this book countless times,as a gift. It's just beautiful.
If you are a seasoned cook,you will find inspiration and appreciate the simple elegance of the recipes.
If you are trying to increase your kitchen know-how,you will find this book accessible and do-able. If you have children,they will likely enjoy many of these recipes. My child does!
Get this book,and enjoy!
One of the Best!Review Date: 2005-11-04
Not a single bad recipe in the book!Review Date: 1999-07-13
This is the best cookbook I have ever owned!!!Review Date: 1998-07-08
EXEMPLARY COOKBOOKReview Date: 1998-03-11
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