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Looking for LoveReview Date: 2008-09-28
A Decade of Bind DatesReview Date: 2008-09-26
The message in the book demonstrate the value of being tenacious and goal setting in your pursuits. Readers can learn so much and to pursue similar courses when face with life changes. Perservere, be tenacious, enjoy ones own being, value friends and family and study the arts for personal enjoyment of life.
A Decade of Blind DatesReview Date: 2008-09-10
Gay dating can be difficult but perserverance has its rewardsReview Date: 2008-09-01
"The Decade of Blind Dates" by Richard Alther has an excellent quote at the beginning by Simone Weil, "Do not allow yourself to be imprisoned by any affection. Keep your solitude. The day, if it ever comes, when you are given true affection there will be no opposition between interior solitude and friendship, quite the reverse." The plot and philosophy of the novel can be summed up in those words. The title gives away that the main character, Peter, will not have much luck in the men he dates. Consequently, as a novel, the book is largely episodic, each chapter generally dedicated to one of the men Peter considers having a relationship with and each one of whom he ultimately decides is not right for him, except in a couple cases where the other man decides to see someone else.
The novel is refreshing for the gay fiction genre because it is not about hot sex among young men (something about gay fiction one of Peter's dates complains about), but rather a very serious--slightly heavy--novel about dating. While the book has some humor in the oddballs Peter meets through advertising for a partner in magazines and newspapers in the years before Internet dating, there is a sense beneath these humorous moments of Peter's loneliness in being unable to connect completely to another man. But Peter also has the good sense not to stay involved in relationships that are not healthy for him. Peter often gets good advice from his gay friend, Barry, who made the mistake of spending twenty-five years in a physically and verbally abusive relationship, and who does not want Peter to make the same mistake.
Because the reader knows Peter isn't going to end up with any of the men he dates until the end, the book is largely plot-less so interest lies in the individual characters. Some of them were humorous--such as the man who shows up with his sex toys, or the man who wants to teach Peter how to two-step, only to have Peter's college-age son and friends walk in on them. I would have liked more of this type of humor. Several of the letters Peter exchanges with other men, including his friend Luke who dies of AIDS, were over-written in tone although the book is always well-written. I just don't know too many men--even gay ones--who write, or talk, like the characters in the book. The book is obviously geared toward gay middle-aged men--those born before Kennedy's assassination as the book implies. Since Peter is an artist I found the talk of his painting interesting, but at times the book became too artsy in its depictions of the characters' sophistication with name-dropping of novelists and artists and special gourmet foods. One of Peter's dates remarks how glad he is to miss Peter's birthday party because he did not care for "all the cleverness and gourmet food." I found myself liking this date of Peter's at times better than Peter himself, I'm afraid.
That said, I do think "The Decade of Blind Dates" is refreshing in its realism about what gay men experience--friends who die of AIDS, gay men who marry in an attempt to convince themselves they are straight, only to end up divorced--and even straight men will feel for Peter during his bout with prostrate cancer and his interesting medical experiences where therapists try to help him get an erection. Gay fiction tends to focus heavily on sex, and this novel is no exception, but at least the sex isn't all buff young bodies but realism mixed in.
And the ending is satisfying. The reader begins to feel a bit forlorn and wonder whether Peter will ever find anyone--he does even though it takes him ten years, and his long search makes the happy ending all the happier and more believable. I found myself also wondering how much of the novel was autobiographical. Author Richard Alther, according to his biography, had several adventures as an emerging gay man before he met his partner online. Happy endings can happen, and adding a little realism to them can't hurt. Middle-aged gay men will definitely enjoy "The Decade of Blind Dates" and anyone who has suffered through years of dating to find a soul mate will feel empathy and humor over Peter's situation.
The Decade of Blind DatesReview Date: 2008-09-02
I loved the ending, and closed the book feeling entirely sated.
You will, too.


This Clumsy's Favorite FairyReview Date: 2008-08-07
a lovely storyReview Date: 2008-03-07
Fairy lessons on lyingReview Date: 2008-01-15
Great Present!Review Date: 2008-01-02
Prilla and the Butterfly Lie (A Stepping Stone Book(TM)) Review Date: 2007-12-29
Thanks for a GREAT book!!!

A classicReview Date: 2002-04-03
Fanny spent most of her time in the U.S. in Cincinnati and in her book is very hard on the city and its inhabitants. She especially objected to the pigs' role as garbage collectors. (In those days, pigs roamed the streets freely, like sheep grazing.) Fanny felt most of the people she encountered were loud, dirty, vulgar, and fanatically patriotic. It is her vivid descriptions of the physical conditions and the people that give this book its historical and entertainment value.
While she was living in Cinci, she opened a retail emporium and filled it with rather shoddy merchandise sent from England by her husband. She also attempted to bring culture to the inhabitants. Not surprisingly, both ventures failed.
After Mrs. Trollope returned to England, she supported her family by writing novels that were quite popular at the time, though they haven't become the classics her son's have. She spent her final years living in Italy with another son and his wife.
Well written commentary on American mannersReview Date: 1999-04-12
Fanny Trollope the mother of famed novelist Anthony Trollope tours the United States in 1832 Review Date: 2007-12-11
Fanny left her impecunious and feckless husband the barrister Thomas Trollope back home in England. Her famous son Anthony did not make the trip as he was a student at Harrow School. Fanny knew her husband would join her in the USA when money became available. Later the family would flee to Bruges to escape creditors. Fanny eventually lived out her life in Florence near her son Thomas Trollope.
After leaving Tennessee the Trollopes settled for two years in the Queen City of the West Cincinnati, Ohio. Fanny did not like America or the American people! She found us xenephobic; boastful, prideful and violent.She hated the hypocrisy of life in Midwest Ohio although she did attend such cultural attractions as opera, plays and lectures. She favored the state Anglican Church of Great Britain not caring for America's separation between church and state.
This book could well be read alongside Charles Dickens' "American Notes for General Circulation" based on his 1842 six month trip to the USA.
Both Trollope and Dickens found the Americans crude, lacking in manners
and eager to make a quick buck. Listen to Trollope at her most scathing:
"..among the rich and the poor, in the slave states, and in the free states...I do not like them. I do not like their principals, I do not like their manners, I do not like their opinions." (p.314).
Fanny Trollope's book is more interesting than Dickens since she discusses colorful characters and shares anecdotes about her sojourn in our young republic. Like Dickens she hates the odious practice of tobacco chewing and the mangling of the English language. Trollope found us Yankees to be too serious and viewing us as poorly read. Unlike the wealthy and famous Dickens, Mrs. Trollope was a middle-aged woman fighting off poverty with her pen. I enjoyed her descriptions of nature such as those she paints of the Potomac River, Northern Virginia and the Niagra Falls area in New York and Canada. She is aware of flora and fauna and describes them with knowledge and in beautiful prose.
Dickens and Trollope give us the eye to see America in the days prior to the Civil War when the curse of chattel slavery ruled the land. Since those days America has granted freedom to all citizens. I wish both Fanny and Charles could visit us again in the 21st century. Their remarks would be of great interest to this reviewer and countless others!
The most readable travel writing of all time!Review Date: 2006-09-18
Had I been Fanny Trollope writing such an account of America in the 1820s, I would be hardpressed to say that I would have changed a single word. Trollope has been the victim of many mean spirited caricatures and accusations by Americans and it still continues today, but what is interesting is that no one can do more than attack her person. In other words, no one seems to be able to refute her claims.
Trollope's "bitchiness" seems, for the most part, merited by my standards and while she finds much to complain about concerning an American democracy in its adolescence, she certainly discovers just as many things that she likes or finds beautiful.
Plain and simple, Americans collectively have a hard time taking criticism, especially from an outsider...and at that time, political criticism from a woman was deemed absurd if not audacious.
Last but not least, Fanny Trollope is always sure to preface anything she says with the conscious realization that she can only speak for what she has seen/heard personally and is thereby not judging ALL of America.
Trollope is witty and anecdotal and I think anyone interested in what an outspoken Englishwoman had to say about the New World should certainly pick up a copy. I found particular interest in gender/religious issues but got the most laughs out of her descriptions of American manners (or the lack thereof).
It is always interesting to see how much things have changed, and better yet, how many things have remained exactly the same!
Quit the griping, it's a great, funny book!Review Date: 2002-03-08

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Read this book for instant inspirationReview Date: 2008-03-13
A suggested twelve-step plan grounded in Eastern wisdom rounds out this thoughtful and positive collection.Review Date: 2008-03-05
Simple, pure wisdomReview Date: 2008-08-06
Review shared with me by readerReview Date: 2008-02-18
This book is a must read - I was a bit skeptic of the book's title but how fitting a title with these soul soothing real life issues that we take for granted on a daily basis - after reading this book I look on life in a more enlightening way - please take the time to purchase this life changing book that explain in layman's term quotes and meditations with real life applications - I assure you will enjoy the different topics - the ones I enjoyed reading the most are Love, Compassion, Enlightenment, Our True Nature, Change and Mindfulness - in fact they were all good - Enjoy.
More a Manual for Daily Enlightenment than a Book on Philosophy Review Date: 2008-02-12
The first attribute of this fine book is the simplicity of approach Singer uses. He has gathered 111 meditations from wide sources (the Dalai Lama, Buddha, Gandhi, Lao Tzu, Sufi and Zen sayings, etc) and uses these memorable brief statements to initiate a meditation, the goal of which is to bring the reader into contact with the only reality that exists: the present moment. The manner in which he manages to move even the most cynical reader is the delicate yet straightforward use of quotation, then thought, then Meditation, then thought, then Real Life Application. Using this simple (yet profound) formula Singer leads the reader through the paths of Mindfulness, Truth, Change, Ego/Illusion, Our True Nature, Unity/Oneness, Simplicity, Compassion, Anger and Resentment, Death, and ultimately Enlightenment. And he makes the journey gentle, asking only that the pages of entry in this book be absorbed slowly, using the mind clearing meditative state to come into a place where we understand our place in the oneness of the Universe.
Not that any of this information is new: it represents centuries of Eastern tradition and wisdom. Yet Singer somehow makes it all feel accessible, allowing each reader to grow at a pace most conducive to personal lives. Growing (and the is what the process certainly promises) becomes natural, as natural as waking up after a life nap of misconceptions. This is as valuable a source of learning Eastern wisdom as you will find. Grady Harp, February 08

Wonderful!Review Date: 2008-01-18
Perfect board book for babies!Review Date: 2007-04-02
Adorable book for little onesReview Date: 2006-11-07
Brings Back MemoriesReview Date: 2004-03-13
Super fun for a speech/motor delayed 3 year old!Review Date: 2003-10-31

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Excellent readReview Date: 2008-07-10
Email Marketing for Complex Sales - Worked for Me!Review Date: 2008-08-27
A Must Read for Both New and Experienced Marketeers Implementing Continuous Email CampaignsReview Date: 2008-08-11
from jargon...easy to read and understand...a good blueprint (and usable step-by step methodology)for anybody thinking about ethical email lead generation and email marketing.
A B2B must read.Review Date: 2008-07-28
No techno babble...just good indispensable adviceReview Date: 2008-09-02
However, I'm so glad I didn't skip them, because Mr. Churchill taught me what a complex sale is and how I needed to look at my business differently. You see, recently I had begun marketing this new higher-end (i.e. very expensive) book marketing program and I had been getting very frustrated with the results I was getting.
It works brilliantly, so I didn't know why the sales leads weren't converting. I thought perhaps the market was going dry, or my sales staff was losing their edge, or maybe the down economy was forcing people away from promoting their books and I should consider a new business.
I was so good to find out it wasn't the economy, and I don't have to hire new sales people, and there is no need to change businesses. I just needed to treat my email marketing differently.
The rest of the book was extremely valuable in putting together the right plan of action. There was no techno-babble, just straightforward, plain language guidance that I could understand and apply.
If you have a business with a complex sales cycle and it's in the slow lane, or if you want to add a higher end product or service and create success right from the start, then I highly recommend you get this book.
Winton Churchill's system will attract more prospects and kick their buying into high gear, because it teaches them how to make their decisions faster and with greater confidence. And, if you're in a situation like I was, it will reduce the wear and tear on both you and your sales team. It should be required reading for every sales manager.
DrProactive Randy Gilbert, #1 Business Adviser to Authors

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Stopped eating Tuna...Review Date: 2008-09-18
A win for the environment, A look at our Marine Ecosystem Review Date: 2005-04-14
What 'bury my heart at wounded knee' was for the sea.Review Date: 2005-07-19
Ellis makes each animal a story--and a worthwhile story at that. I recall sharing 'Wounded Knee' with a friend of mine who gave up after a few chapters saying he 'got the point', and while it works for literary criticism, it doesn't for historical or scientific criticism. I doubt that Ellis's book is in anyway comprehensive, but while most readers will grasp the levity of things very quickly, it deserves to be read in its entirity. I think the various species mentioned here (many in trouble, many already extinct) deserve that much.
Best yet, while Ellis does little to disguise his deep affinity for all those things that would make the sea their home, his arguments rest not at all upon this sentimentality, but rather on the instability of our marine-based economies as populations crash.
At least a dozen eighteenth century extinctions would read like this epitaph "Like the sea cow, it was ridiculously easy to kill and tasted good...", but Ellis exposes how modern methods are far more effective in decimating extant species than any whalers ever could have managed.
Possibly one of the most essential reads for an easy overview of the state of sea-going species, though readers with a greater interest will no doubt want to dig farther into the literature and on-line resources.
A truly disturbing bookReview Date: 2008-02-03
NO MORE SUSHI FOR ME !Review Date: 2007-07-02
The book focuses on two age old problems; an infinite population versus a finite food source, and man's greedy Draconian methods used to enhance his own pocket book. Long line fishing boats with 60 to 100 miles of fishing line strung out across the waves dangling thousands of baited hooks is bound to catch "something!"
This book is truly a cornucopia of resource material injected with the author's personal caustic innuendos that serve to highlight his zealous crusade against the onslaught and waste by big corporations and sea food distributors.
A good read, but perhaps an even better source of historical statistics and research for tomorrow's promising marine biologists.
Ellis has put a great deal of effort into his topic. His realism and propensity to "tell it like it is" will slice into your heart and soul, better than any harpoon ... every thrown by Captain Ahab!

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Simple, easyReview Date: 2002-03-12
Here is the Table of Contents:
Foreword
Author's
Note
Acknowledgments
1. A Firm Foundation
2. Where It All Began
3. The Character of Man before Sin
4. The Character
of Man in Sin
5. The Character of Man Redeemed by Christ
6. The Non-Christian Point of View
7. The Christian Point
of View
8. Attitudes and Actions
9. Popular Tactics
10. Structure of a Biblical Defense
11. Defending the Faith
(1)
12. Defending the Faith (2)
13. Defending the Faith (3)
14. An Apologetic Parable
Great study guide to Biblical apologeticsReview Date: 2007-08-03
This short guide, about 150 pages, examines what the Bible says about the state of humanity, and how that effects all other relationships. This becomes a very practical book, after a short theoretical exposition. Pratt does a wonderful job of showing that making the case for Christianity is more than an appeal to the mind, rather it is an appeal to the whole person: intellect, body and emotion.
Pointing out evidences from the Bible, personal experience and the external world, Pratt hopes that all apologetic conversations ultimately end by discussing the logical conclusions of where beliefs take persons. By so doing, he hopes to show inconsistencies in world view and to show consistencies in a Biblical world view.
This book makes extensive use of flow charts and diagrams that would make it of good use for group or individual Christian study for people interested in being able to articulate their faith better, based on its consistencies and the evidences available from presupposing what the Bible says about humanity and God is true. Pratt, a former professor at Reformed Theological Seminary with a Harvard doctorate aims to show how apologetics is the natural state of how a Christian believer interacts with the world at large and seeks to help others perform their job more at ease and with greater understanding of their world view.
Good, but not perfectReview Date: 2006-08-15
Though I applaud Pratt for taking the subject of apologetics and presenting it on a level that high school students can understand, I also think on some points he is wrong, and on other points he takes a dangerous position.
At one point he says that we can use near death experiences as evidence of some kind of afterlife. I think this is a naive at best and dangerous at worst. Many people have had experiences, and can even present "evidence," for things that are decidedly false.
On the other hand, I can commend Pratt for his coverage of the foundations of people's worldviews, and I think here he is barking up the right tree. I just wish he would take it a little further.
Ideally, I would have preferred that he focus on how the foundation of one's worldview effects one's interpretation of facts. The question is which worldview can even allow the possibility of facts in a consistent and non-destructive manner. Of course, this would have made the book Van Tillian, and I can't fault him that he doesn't completely agree with me.
Over all, this is a good book, and I would use it for a high school Sunday school class, but (personally) I would supplement it in order to give a complete picture of the apologetic conflict.
Excellent Resource for Church Ministry!!Review Date: 2004-06-07
An excellent introduction to presuppositional apologeticsReview Date: 2003-03-15

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Dragons Rule in this book.Review Date: 2003-06-06
I read this a few years ago and became fascinated with the way it showed the dragons way of life and culture. I enjoyed reading it then and pleased to see it back in print.
Food for the imagination!Review Date: 2003-06-02
One of my first forays into Sci-Fi / FantasyReview Date: 2001-12-02
At this point, I own the entire Dragonrealm series (including the Origin of the Dragonrealm series), and am hoping he'll pick it up from where he left off on the Horse King. Those half-human, half-Dragon people sound very interesting, and I'd love to see more of them.
Great StartReview Date: 2005-08-27
Dragonrealm Expert reviews FiredrakeReview Date: 2002-06-25

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Frontman- a much appreciated point of viewReview Date: 2008-09-15
It is mostly the industry 'from within' as well as Richard's personal experiences and a few tips on how it works and how to work it.
Nice! And did I say well written?
Brilliant!Review Date: 2007-10-21
"Frontman" is a uniquely honest and refreshing story that works on several levels at the same time. What makes a frontman? Why do they do it? Few books, if any, have explored the phenomenon from the point of view of the subject so brilliantly. B-52's Frontman Fred Schneider says it best on the back cover: "BUY THIS BOOK"!!!
"Frontman" is terrific!Review Date: 2007-10-19
All books about music should be this good!Review Date: 2007-10-24
A Ride Into TimeReview Date: 2007-12-08
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Looking for Love
Amos Lassen
"The Decade of Blind Dates" by Richard Alther is a book that many of us can identify with. Peter Bauman at forty-five years old is a divorced painter and a gay man. He wants a partner so he reads the personal ads to see what is available. He meets quite a group of men--as we all have done. The book is a look at the social and cultural aspects of advertising for love. It is a real look at life before the internet and it is full of wit and humor.
The main character seems to be modeled a bit on the author who was in a straight marriage, had a family and came out later in life. I know, as a middle-aged man, that it is not east to find a date and pre-internet it was that much more difficult. Alther had several similar adventures as he came out as a gay man (he ultimately met his partner on-line). It is easy to empathize with the book as I am sure all of you who have dated will see.
Let's look at some of the men Peter met. There was a doctor from Connecticut with a 56 page resume and a very heavy man, a Republican who was rabid about his political views and there was Henry. Henry crocheted toilet covers. There was Walter who had really bad dandruff and long toenails. There was Norman who loved to dance the Texas two-step, naked. Winston never went anywhere without his collection of sex toys. What more could a man ask for?
Peter has a best friend, Barry who was his confidant and crying towel but Barry had his own problems in the abusive relationship he was in.
Peter did fall in love and that was with Luke but he fell victim to AIDS. Peter is also diagnosed with prostate cancer but he still managed to date. It was when he decided to paint his self-portrait that Peter begins to learn about himself. It takes him ten years to find his mate and while he probably did not have fun looking, we had a great time reading about it. The book is somewhat sexually explicit but, hey, this is a book about looking for love and the search is like buying a pair of shoes. One has to try them on because if they don't fit, it will be awful.
The book is well written and great fun to read. Alther has a very sharp writing style and the fact that he is writing about what is familiar territory to many of us makes this book so endearing.