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In "Watching Weather," Tom Murphree, Ph.D. and Mark K. Miller hit a home run! They've succeeded where many scientific writers have failed; Murphree and Miller were able to translate this complex subject, i.e., atmospheric dynamics, into plain English. As an operational meteorologist and educator, I highly recommend this book. A must buy!

Mary K. Miller and Tom Murphree explain the science of weather in easily understood terms and concepts. There's nothing "accidental" about these scientists. Everyone who ever had a picnic ruined by a sudden rain storm should read this book.

Tom Murphree and Mary Miller have explained the facts about weather in an easy-to-read text with everyday applications addressed. This meteorological book would be beneficial to middle school through adult ages. The book encourages you to watch the weather daily and try your hand at being your own local weather forecaster.

"Watching Weather" is a wonderful introduction to weather. The authors explain the basics and build on it to cover "el Niño" and other contemporary events. The book is well designed with clear graphics and interesting sidebars. The "Rules of Thumb" are particularly helpful in gauging the weather in your everyday life. The book ends on a strong note with a sobering, but not hysterical, discussion of the Greenhouse Effect. This comes after an engrossing look at past global warmings and ice ages. The hothouse world of the dinosaurs and the glacial planet of the cavemen give you some sort of reference for modern changes. "Watching Weather" is a quick and entertaining primer if you want to start learning more about weather.

Tom Murphree and Mary Miller lay out valuable weather concepts in easy to understand terms. In fact, I've read several weather books and this rates at the top for ease of understanding, flow and entertainment...yes it's entertaining!

The graphics are very nice as well. They give it a "personally drawn" look!

Anyone in meteorology, or just wondering about weather should have this book on their shelf!

This spiral bound book is a gift for our grandson. It is perfect for the teen who could use a little help organizing themselves at school as well as at home. I particularly like that is mentions teen on the front of the book so young people feel it is written with them in mind. Lots of good ideas that might click with a teen and ultimately prove to be beneficial without making a big deal of things.

This book actually came out in good time for me. It really helped me organize my room after just having it redone. also the fact that this book was able to help me organize my school stuff was good too. Junior year is kinda hectic as far school work and this book was able to help show that it's not as impossible to stay organized as it looks. I really enjoyed the great tips that this book gave also on how to organize your room. I actually took a day this weekend to Really organize my room the way that this suggested and so far it's working really well!!
Definitely recommend it for someone who thinks its just about impossible to get organized, much like myself! haha
-Lisa, age 16, New York

This book teaches a great system for getting and staying organized. It is easy to understand and engaging. I found the section on benefits very motivating and encouraging. These are really life skills that are valuable in school and adult life. A real winner!

This book has really helped me stay organized. Tells me where to keep my papers how to have folders and keep on track. It's also a great way to learn tactics you never heard of before. definitely get this book to keep on on the right track and not suffer another F.

My son Sam is going into fifth grade and was given this book as a gift. After reading it, this is what he wrote...

"Where's my stuff?" by Samantha Moss and Lesley Schwartz was so helpful to me as a student entering middle school.

The chapter called "School Stuff" had so many great ideas to get organized for fifth grade. It showed you 3 ways to organize your papers and notes. The chapter also taught me how to organize my study space at home. In addition, it showed me how to use my backback and set up my locker. The tips in this chapter are sure to make my year GREAT!

This is the ideal book for a child going into middle school!

When I was a college student in the early 60's I thought it rather odd that one of the required readings for a management class was the book "The Art of War" by Sun Tzu.
I had just served a two year enlistment in the U.S. Army (most of it at school) and thought I was done with military topics.
I soon learned why that book was studied in management classes and is considered a classic study of competition and conflict in general.
The book by Ralph Puckett (Col. USA Ret) "Words for Warriors" like "The Art of War" is not just for military leaders.
Executives, managers and would be managers will find it an invaluable asset in learning how to lead. Whether it is leading a corporate board or a shift crew at a fast food restaurant, the reader will find topics relevant to the situation.
Col. Puckett is a professional soldier, a distinguished graduate of the United States Military Academy. He spent virtually his entire career leading troops in peace and war. He recounts many of his personal experiences, as well as those of other military professionals, and how each relates to the end product of "getting the job done." Sections such as training, taking care of soldiers (employees), personal life, strategy and goals are broken down into easy to read and understand incidents. The book is an easy read, and is clear and concise. In addition to being a very interesting and informative book, I would also recommend it as a reference book to be consulted often by anyone who wants to be a leader that "gets the job done."

Words for Warriors is a delight to anyone interested in why we professionals do what we do. One reviewer called Puckett's book "inspirational reading for future generals," but it is not. This is not the sort of book which paints dry generalities for ROTC and ACSC students, nor is it an autobiography. Rather, it is a well-edited narrative of Ralph Puckett's real-life encounters with the military and political world. It places the reader into the You-Are-There. This is hands-on stuff.
Let's get right to the action. On 25 November 1950, the Chinese Army had just entered the Korean War. First Lieutenant Ralph Puckett was there commanding the 8th Army Ranger Company, a unit composed of only 47 U.S. soldiers and 9 South Korean KATUSA nationals. During the evening of 25 November and early morning of 26 November, Puckett's Rangers fought off 5 head-on assaults of over 500 Chinese in hand-to-hand bayonet fighting and bugle led-charges which continued through the night. Chinese army losses were appalling. When, owing only to lack of artillery support, the Company was overrun by 6th charge, Puckett was severely wounded and against his protests was finally dragged to safety by his NCOs. By the next morning, only 26 Rangers were left standing. For their actions, his two NCOs were awarded the Silver Star, and Lieutenant Ralph Puckett himself was awarded the Distinguished Service Cross.
Here's the lesson from Words for Warriors. Puckett knew from the beginning that an officer's first responsibility is to his soldiers, and he must surround himself with talent. I can't tell you how many times I have seen that rule violated by officers whose first responsibility was to the protecting of their own careers. To wit, the sad, sad case of the recent prisoner humiliation and torture scenes at the Iraqi Abu Ghraib prison was not, in the words of politicians, the isolated act "of a few bad apples." To the contrary, it was a clear case of officers' abandonment of duty. This scandal would never have happened if the superior officers had followed Puckett's examples.
Puckett is decidedly neutral in passing out both praise and criticism. While he not hesitant to praise past and present generals, privates, and politicians who have done their duties well, he is also not afraid to point out where generals, privates, and politicians have screwed up. What's more, he's not afraid to list them by name, current leaders included.
Words for Warriors is a collection of 85 short thought-pieces, anecdotes, humor, and combat narratives. It is well-edited into sections, but any one chapter can be read as a stand-alone piece, and each story has its own lesson. And I'm forever grateful that Puckett has included an Index, so anyone can do a quick research on topics anywhere from Agincourt to Apaches to Afghanistan. (Puckett is also well-versed on the Near East.)
Words for Warriors is well-researched and footnoted, for Puckett can cite Chaucer as well as Cheney. He offers chapters which look realistically at the past and equally as well guarded to the future of the U.S. military and our country.
Oh -- and did I mention Ralph Puckett was awarded a second Distinguished Service Cross in Vietnam? To find out more about that one, read the book.

Frederick Malmstrom, Ph.D.
U.S. Air Force Academy

Solid story-telling combined with hard-earned wisdom makes this one of the best books on leadership that I have ever read. Bursting with the guidance of great leaders throughout history, this effortless read will make a difference in the business world and with parents training adolescents with life skills. It contains the crucial elements of leadership success and the tools to inspire others to achieve superior results.

Col. (Ret.) Puckett is a superb communicator, and delivers delivers the hard-earned wisdom attained from his many years leading Rangers in preparation for battle in Korea and in the jungles of Vietnam. In 1950, fresh out of West Point, Lt. Puckett led the 47 men of the 8th Ranger Company ahead of the 25th Infantry Division, and repelled 5 assaults by much larger Chinese forces. Wounded severely in the battle, Puckett didn't order his men to pull back until the 6th assault. Too injured to move, Puckett stayed behind to fight. Later, two of his Rangers returned to drag him back to safety. After Korea, Puckett commanded the Mountain Ranger Division and organized a school for Columbia's Rangers."*

He received a Distinguished Service Cross for the action in Korea and a second in the Republic of Vietnam. Before he retired in 1971, Puckett was recognized as on the nation's most decorated soldiers, with 2 Silver Stars, 3 Legions of Merit, 2 Bronze Stars, the Commendation Medal, 10 Air Medals, 5 Purple Hearts, the Distinguished Graduate Award from West Point, and the infantry's Doughboy Award (joining the ranks of eminent leaders such as Gen. Colin Powell, Gen. Matthew Ridgway, LTG Hal Moore and H. Ross Perot).

As one who has survived brutal engagements and has seen the precepts of the great military leaders put to the test, Col. Puckett's zeal for building great leaders comes through on every page. In our family's consumer product business, this book would have really helped me in my early years to lead my 100-plus `troops' successfully.

WFW centers on the training of the Unit Leader, the most critical management position in any organization; if he fails, the entire organization fails. Managers of all fields will benefit from this inspiring collection of essays, and the focus on key subject areas (such as Command and Staff, Unit Training, Personal Development, and The Goal).

Col. Puckett's conversational tone will infect you with his passion for making subordinate officers strong and successful ... and give you an immersive experience of leadership principles in action. His personal story blended with the advice of military greats like Alexander, Napoleon and Eisenhower make the pages come to life and will remind you why Col. Puckett has received many of the highest leadership awards the Army bestows.

For the last 10 years, he has served as Honorary Colonel of the 75th Ranger Regiment - coaching Rangers in training and on the field in Afghanistan and Iraq. Col. Richard Clarke, commander of the 75th Ranger Regiment, says of Ralph Puckett: "No other Ranger in the history of the Rangers has influenced as many Soldiers as he has."

Words for Warriors will stay with me as an inspiration and a reference for years to come. In the words of famed Lieutenant General Harold G. Moore, this is "the absolute best book on military leadership that I have ever read."

"Words for Warriors" is a jewel. It is instructive, entertaining, inspirational and full of wisdom. Colonel Ralph Puckett is writing about what he knows and all readers will recognize the great value of this book.

Charles Y. Massey

This is a great warrior's paean to his beloved United States Army, unmistakably demonstrated as every time he refers to a Soldier or Infantryman, he capitalizes the words. Words for Warriors, a disgorging of many pieces of practical professional advice and criticism or questioning where it is warranted, is written in clear, concise, educated but understandable prose. A Distinguished Graduate of West Point, with two Distinguished Service Crosses, two Silver Stars, two Bronze Stars and five Purple Hearts, Puckett speaks with the authority of a combat legend. My background is Air Force, but I find his words universal in scope and application.

I just wanted to ask whether people think this book would be helpful to teachers at the secondary level. I mostly teach language arts for kids with mild to moderate learning and behavioral impairments.
I want to improve in the ways I managing planning, grading and classroom behavior.

Thanks!

(I had to add stars in order to post, apparently, but as I've never read this book obviously they don't mean anything!)

I am going into my 2nd year of teaching and have found this book to be immensely helpful. I taught a split grade my first year and struggled with organizing all of the curriculum information and keeping my plan book organized in a way that helped keep me on track for the year.

This book by Shoshana Wolfe is awesome for getting organized. She shares her own story of these strategies helping her as she had to move her class multiple times after 9/11. From setting up a year-long curriculum goal sheet for each subject area, to planning monthly calendars to serve as the foundation for all planning and teaching, to the artifact binders and homework notebooks, this book is packed with refreshing ideas that new and veteran teachers alike can benefit from.

I am so glad I purchased this book. I will definitely be using a lot of these strategies this year with my new class.

Your Best Year Yet offers great suggestions on how all teachers can make the most of what they have, no matter what their situation. It teaches that children are viable resources for creating and sustaining an organized classroom community. It is extremely well-written with great models, templates, photographs, sample student and teacher work, and, most enjoyably, first-hand accounts of the author's own experiences as a school teacher. As a teacher in an integrated classroom, I have found this guide to be very helpful!

I wish I'd had this book before I started my first year as a teacher! It provides incredibly useful ways to organize and keep track of classroom activity - from the big picture of planning (and changing) curriculum throughout the year, to the minutia of how to arrange the steats or what to do with all that paper that accumulates. I've been teaching for 7 years, and recently borrowed this book from a colleague, and learned many new tricks, like how to re-think my classroom setup and how to keep an eye on long-term goals, while maintaining order in the day-to-day workings of my classroom.

I particularly love how the author stresses the value of students' sense of responsibility in the classroom - this has been my experience too. The more students invest in their work environment, the better they will take care of it, and if we make it an easy space in which children can learn and use materials independently, they will certainly do this! It makes everyone's job easier to work in an organized space.

This book takes all the great ideas for teaching kids to be independent in the classroom and puts them together in one place. After teaching middle school for 7 years, there are things in here that I have done, and things I wish I'd thought about sooner. It gives you plenty to think about and many ways to enter into the process of streamlining the routines in your classroom making it a better place for both student and teacher.

This book really impacted me and the direction to go in my administration and teaching roles! I am a better leader and teacher b/c of the principles taught in this book! Gives a great approach on how to inspire others to accomplish more and succeed. Easy book to read! It is set up in a fictional story. The story was slow to grasp at first because I kept saying, "get to the point". Once the story was set up it began to pour out applicable information that the fictional story really brought out insights into. I really liked it after that. that is why i recommend this book to all educators. It doesn't make you feel like a failure. We are just normal and trying to do the best we can and wonder why everyone seems so exhausted and bored in schools. This book gave me a great approach to create energy within others! And it is a very simple approach.

Note: This book doesn't really talk about discipline or methodologies or theories, but provides a practical approach of how to improve the quality of instruction, and increase student and teacher satisfaction. Through the fiction side of the book it allows you to observe a successful school and one that is failing and how the failing school becomes a success! I now am going to take my classes to a new level of energy b/c of this book!

Easy read! At first it doesn't seem like it is going to apply b/c it is building the story. Then it catches steam and flows with good stuff.

Clearly, one of the best books I've ever read regarding education. This book was a required reading for a graduate course, but it should be required for any educator who truly wants to help make children more successful. It made me examine how I have been ZAPPING (encouraging, motivating) students and colleagues and SAPPING (demotivating, discouraging) students and colleagues. Although I can't go to the 12th dimension with Ralph, I'm hoping I will look at my students, my school in a way that will allow me to be more of a ZAPPER and less of a SAPPER.

This easy-to-read book sends a powerful message concerning the importance of empowerment and ownership in education. The lessons that can be learned from this publication will remain beneficial as long as education is an existing institution. Everyone should place himself/herself in the shoes of Joe Mode and see how the empowerment process can and should be implemented. To see firsthand how empowerment can improve teacher and student performance is totally astounding.

This book should be required reading for every school administrator starting with the State Commissioner of Education.

This book is light-hearted and easy to read. It provides the reader with a real sense of how to empower employees to create the best school possible. After reading this book, you will feel empowered to make a difference in your school. A must for all practicing school administrators.

Zapp! should be required reading for every educator in the USA. Its an easy read and an inspirational account of a principal who wants more for his students, staff and himself. The power to empower is underestimated in our schools today. Zapp!could change any educaator with the desire to grow.

I have always been interested in culture and human aspects of the firm. This book was highly recommended by my teacher on strategic management as his favorite on change management. It's an easy read on the human aspects of change and is helped by a novel structure in the book (each subsection of the chapter reads like an individual chapter, which assists the dropping and picking up). It's no nonsense. Anyone who liked 'The Fifth Discipline', will much appreciate this as well. I hope to read more of this type material.

I have always been interested in culture and human aspects of the firm. This book was highly recommended by my teacher on strategic management as his favorite on change management. It's an easy read on the human aspects of change and is helped by a novel structure in the book (each subsection of the chapter reads like an individual chapter, which assists the dropping and picking up). It's no nonsense. Anyone who liked 'The Fifth Discipline', will much appreciate this as well. I hope to read more of this type material.

very updated, helpful in managing change in big organizations

If the Business environment is as smart as it should be this book should be a Best-Selle

The Accelerating Organization is an excellent resource of ideas on how to develop a constantly learning organization. Maira and Scott-Morgan provide many clear and concise concepts in developing a new organization or moving an existing organization into a learning system. Every point is illustrated from a plethora of international business situations. Not only is "The Accelerating Organization" informative, it is "do-able."

This book is a great place to start for smaller groups and for someone with no ideas on how to get started fundraising. Most of the ideas have very little investment required which is another plus.

I also recomend [...] which has a free fundraising program my organization of under 100 members utilized to raise over $11K last year.

I highly recommend this book for anyone who needs to raise some money. It's a friendly, practical guide that offers lots of smart guidance and creative tips. There's great advice here on a variety of options--from houseparties to raffles to carwashes--and the authors help you figure out which event is right for you. I especially liked the advice on how to ask for money in person (which can be scary at first), and the "do's and don'ts" lists will help you avoid making some common mistakes. If you need to raise money for your child's school or athletic team, for your church or community group, to help disaster victims, or for a political cause, this book is the best guide around.

I highly recommend this book for anyone who needs to raise some money. It's a friendly, practical guide that offers lots of smart guidance and creative tips. There's great advice here on a variety of options--from houseparties to raffles to carwashes--and the authors help you figure out which event is right for you. I especially liked the advice on how to ask for money in person (which can be scary at first), and the "do's and don'ts" lists will help you avoid making some common mistakes. If you need to raise money for your child's school or athletic team, for your church or community group, to help disaster victims, or for a political cause, this book is the best guide around.

This book has easy to follow, step by step plans for ways small entities can raise funds. There is enough variey in the types of projects described that any agency can choose the one that seems to suit the "personality" of the agency. It should make raising money seem less daunting and within the abilities of most people.

This book is a terrific resource for new or inexperienced fundraisers, or even veterans who need to brush up on the basics. The worksheets and step-by-step, detailed instructions are easy to follow and execute. The authors have found a way to make the actual work of fundraising into a manageable process. This book is invaluable to most anyone's fundraising efforts -- and is especially useful for volunteer fundraisers!

I thought this book was a great starter book for those who have little knowledge of AA worship. My main problem with the text it is a little to academic for the masses - a little too much jargon. But I could relate to much of what stated from my personal and family experiences.

A book that gives you more details of how Africans evolved into Afro Baptist, I would highly recommend Mechal Sobel's Been in the Storm Too Long." This book is excellent and can compliment this book. She deserves reading. She speaks truth.

Ok, so what can I, a white guy (perhaps, I might emphasise, a VERY white guy), get out of a book on African American Christian worship? More than one might think - read on.

Costen, in her book 'African American Christian Worship,' begins with a discussion of core theological beliefs that shape all of such worship. This core seeks to locate and connect the liturgy with the rest of life, such that the practice of worship has meaning that influences the rest of life, and vice versa. These core beliefs are rather interesting, and not at all out of line with what my own basic theology would contain. However, the liturgical practice in my own background does not always realise the larger connection between the shape of the worship liturgy and the larger universe.

There is a strong focus on personal experience as a primary spiritual element. Being interested in such spirituality, I was intrigued by her quote:

'Unlike the Western-oriented Christian, whose theology is rooted in Greco-Roman concepts and culture, African peoples tend to seek to know God personally rather than to know about God from doctrines and creeds.' (p. 20)

While I am a very creed-based Christian, I still seek those experiences and practices which help me to know God, as well as having respect for those practices and studies which talk about God. There has been a tension between these orientations in the more Euro-centric history as well as the African American history, with each side having a similar suspicion of the other. One of Costen's shortcomings in this book is that she ignores the whole of the Western contemplative tradition.

Costen elaborates on the historical aspects of African American worship, particularly as it continues to be informed by its origins as an expression of oppressed peoples. There is, however, no single pattern or form for African American worship; rather, the variety of African American worship that exists today across many denominational lines are all influenced to varying degrees by this background. For instance, 'all African American denominations (Protestant especially) can claim heritage in the Invisible Institution, regardless of when and where they enter denominational history.' (p. 87) However, this is shaped and influenced by a number of factors, including location, leadership, daily life of worshipers, and what Costen describes as the 'denominational ethos' of the worshipers. To think that there is one pattern of African American Christian worship is a mistake.

As someone coming out of the Anglican tradition, I was interested in the discussion of the role of the Church of England and British-based movements on the early African American experience. This is not a history of which I am very familiar, and it is not one emphasised in other historical texts I have studied.

Certainly, practices such as the Ring Shout are very removed from my experience and tradition. I wonder if the description and discussion in Costen's book does this practice justice, as I did not get a good sense of what exactly takes places and what feelings and connections to God are manifest in the practice. This is most likely another case of the necessary difference between reading about a practice and actually enacting and participating in the practice.

I was very interested in the idea of the Invisible Institution and the improvised architecture and accoutrements dedicated to worship. As one who often has to improvise meeting spaces, etc., I have had to deal with some of the difficulties discussed here, albeit none as difficult to deal with as official societal and legal suppression as was enacted against early African American self-directed worship experiences.

Perhaps the most important chapter for me was the concluding one, which discusses worship as empowerment. Costen states, 'In order for corporate worship to be authentic and empowering, it must be psychologically relevant to worshipers and commensurate with their lived experience.' (p. 123) Likewise, she writes, 'The most effective demonstration of true liturgy is what we do in obedience to God in Christ with our lives when we gather and when we scatter as a community in the world.' (p. 127) These quotes sum up for me the importance of worship in life, learning, and the hoped-for relevance of what takes place during our liturgical-worshipful times to our overall lives. This transcends the unique experience of any particular group such as African Americans, and becomes important for all people.

It would take me several pages to adequately write a review that expresses the scholarship contained in this book. I am honored to be able to review this text because it is such an outstanding piece of work. I know that this book has been discussed by the academy, clergy, students, and laypersons alike. It is a very scholarly, well researched, and organized writing on African American Christian worship. I really don't know where to begin because there are just so many great things I could say about this book. It is a must for every library of scholars interested in the area of worship. I used this book as a primary resource for a seminary graduate project in music. But the book has much more to offer and is not limited to any one topic of worship. Costen starts with a discussion of the theology of African American worship and how this relates to our "core belief" system and our "doctrine of God." She notes that African American worship can be characterized in general as "experiential." African people "tend to seek to know God personally rather than to know about God from doctrines and creeds." She presents music, preaching, prayer, ritual, and shouting as a means of communication and empowerment in worship. These acts are also described as "celebrative acts of worship" that engage the community of faith into divine communion with God and with one another. From a historical perspective, Costen begins with worship in the Invisible Institution and discusses how it uniquely shaped the culture of worship for African American people. Later on, she provides a historical summary of the African American denominations and congregations and the history behind their formation. The book has much more than I could ever discuss - from a detailed history of African American music to a contemporary model for worship. This book is very well written, scholarly, and simple to read. It is a must for every library.

Melva Wilson Costen's "African American Christian Worship, though now nearly a decade old, remains an undated core text for understanding the African American Christian religious experience. From a Caucasian perspective, some may mistake "worship" in the title as referring to one part of a Sunday morning service. As Costen, and African American Church history demonstrate, nothing could be further from the truth. "Worship" is a 24/7 experience of God and the gathered community of God's people meet to celebrate what God has done and to empower one another with what He will continue to do.

Costen's strength is her ability to tap into the history of African American Christianity. In fact, in many ways this book is just that--a history of African American corporate worship. Moving from the bitter waters of enslavement, to the Invisible Institution, to the Praise House, Costen shows both the actions and the theology behind those actions. She then beautifully ties together these historical foundations with the modern Christian worship experience of contemporary African American churches. For anyone wanting a well-researched history of the gathered African American Church, this is a great source.

Reviewer: Bob Kellemen, Ph.D., is the author of Beyond the Suffering: Embracing the Legacy of African American Soul Care and Spiritual Direction .

It would take me several pages to adequately write a review that expresses the scholarship contained in this book. I am honored to be able to review this text because it is such an outstanding piece of work. I know that this book has been discussed by the academy, clergy, students, and laypersons alike. It is a very scholarly, well researched, and organized writing on African American Christian worship. I really don't know where to begin because there are just so many great things I could say about this book. It is a must for every library of scholars interested in the area of worship. I used this book as a primary resource for a seminary graduate project in music. But the book has much more to offer and is not limited to any one topic of worship. Costen starts with a discussion of the theology of African American worship and how this relates to our "core belief" system and our "doctrine of God." She notes that African American worship can be characterized in general as "experiential." African people "tend to seek to know God personally rather than to know about God from doctrines and creeds." She presents music, preaching, prayer, ritual, and shouting as a means of communication and empowerment in worship. These acts are also described as "celebrative acts of worship" that engage the community of faith into divine communion with God and with one another. From a historical perspective, Costen begins with worship in the Invisible Institution and discusses how it uniquely shaped the culture of worship for African American people. Later on, she provides a historical summary of the African American denominations and congregations and the history behind their formation. The book has much more than I could ever discuss - from a detailed history of African American music to a contemporary model for worship. This book is very well written, scholarly, and simple to read. It is a must for every library.

If you're an evangelical Protestant as I am, chances are that you hear very little about Paul's words that some are gifted by God to remain unmarried. We acknowledge Paul's observation, but we only extremely rarely (if at all) think of people as called to a life without marriage. Perhaps making it more difficult for those who are or might be called to such a state, we tend to think in terms of singleness vs. marriage, a juxtaposition that, given our culture, connotes loneliness vs. happiness.

Father Dubay challenges this view by arguing that God never calls anyone to singleness, because singleness in and of itself is not a life vocation that enables you to serve others. Instead, God calls some to marriage (serving primarily your family), and some to celibacy (serving others who are not of your family and devoting yourself to Jesus apart from the married state). The difference in terminology between singleness and celibacy might seem like splitting hairs to some, but I think Dubay is on to something in that the terminology we use affects our outlook. Furthermore, his emphasis on directing our lives toward self-giving counteracts the materialistic, self-centered messages from our culture.

Within the pages of this book, Dubay gives much advice concerning signs of a call to a celibate vocation, and paints a detailed picture of what a life of celibacy looks like. And Dubay's love for the Lord Jesus Christ shines through on every page he writes.

Obviously, this book is more accessible to Catholics than Protestants. However, I found the majority of this book to be quite useful and insightful. (Of course, there will be some points where evangelicals have strong disagreements with Dubay.) A book (as opposed to just a few words or a chapter in a book) is needed to address this subject from an evangelical Protestant perspective. Until then, Dubay's book is a valuable read.

Father Dubay's moving and genuinely realistic presentation of the gift of consecrated celibacy takes us beyond the usual stereotypes of celibate life as strictly a means to enhance one's service or show a commitment to community life. Using the classic, solid background which has endured for 2000 years of Christianity, Father Dubay presents a brief but deep exploration of the love, sacrifice, and commitment of vowed chastity, unhampered by trendy or empty references.

This is a book that I think could help basically anyone understand better the spiritual reasons for the practice of consecrated celibacy. It has a lot of substance without requiring the reader to be a sophisticated theologian, it is just clear and direct. Celibate chastity ("virginity") is a charism, a gift, and as a choice of a way of life it is an exclusive centering on God as the one essential truth and love of one's entire life. Because of this exclusive gift of self to God, the virgin who lives this life with spiritual integrity and generosity receives from God the grace of a manyfold increase in her/his capacity for charity toward all people. "And You Are Christ's" makes a really excellent statement of the contemplative and apolostolic dimensions of consecrated celibacy, especially in relation to women. It also describes the various kinds of consecration within the Catholic Church, and the signs by which this gift/charism may be known in individuals. This book will be valuable to anyone discerning a call to celibate life, to their families to help them understand this vocation, and to committed celibates to help understand more broadly, deeply, and clearly the reasons for the value of their choice, that they might live it more fully in God's service.

Although I think that all of Fr. Dubay's books are excellent, this book is one of the best books I have ever read, and indeed the finest book I have ever read on the subject of celibacy for the Kingdom of God. In reading this book, I felt my heart and soul identify with Fr. Dubay's words, written with an eloquence which I could never achieve.

As a member of a Secular Institute (for those unfamiliar with the term: being a member of a Secular Institute is having a vocation in the Catholic Church as a lay person - not a religious, priest, brother, sister - who takes the vows of a religious, i.e. poverty, chastity and obedience, but remains a lay person living in the world and living the vows within the context of a lay life), I especially appreciated Fr. Dubay's clarification of "vocation" as being not what one "does" in life (which is what a "career" is), but what one IS in the depths of one's soul, and his explanation of gospel virginity as being a "love affair", as opposed to the world's negative view that it is a "giving up" of something (marriage, sexual intimacy, family life, etc.), or that it is an unhealthy or unnatural way to live.

Fr. Dubay explains that everything we search for in life, even so much as a cold drink to satisfy physical thirst, is but an indication of our deeper quest for the Lord, and how a vocation of gospel virginity is not a "giving up" but a fulfillment of our deepest yearnings for God. For the person consecrated to gospel virginity, Fr. Dubay writes of the difference in how we live our lives if we live cognizant of the true nature of our vocation.

I think that this book would be an outstanding aid for those who may be struggling to understand their child's/family member's/friend's decision to live a life of gospel virginity. Further, I believe that anyone who feels they are being called to a celibate and chaste lifestyle would benefit by reading this book and gain great insights into why they feel attracted to gospel virginity.

Finally, for all those who are living a celibate lifestyle, whether diocesan priest, religious priest, religious brother or sister, nun, or consecrated lay person, this book will be an incalculable affirmation of our chosen lifestyle and love affair with the One who is Love itself.

One of the best books on this subject. Every Catholic should read it to have a better understanding of the priests and religious who serve them. Especially good is the explanation of the priest as a bridegroom whose spouse is the Church, in the image of Christ the Bridegroom found in Scripture. Also good is the explanation that "being" precedes "doing." We are valuable in God's eyes because we "are", not because of what we "do," that love falls into the category of "being" rather than "doing" and is the "greatest of these." Also good is the explanation that consecrated life is an image of the life to come, and that it's role in the Mystical Body is to compliment, rather than compete with, the marriage vocation. The section on "compensation compromises" is excellent for any state in life. It explains how we make compromises to compensate or reward ourselves for the sacrifices we make in our vocations. For example, "I am overindulging in (fill in the blank) because I deserve it for the enormous sacrifices I make as a (choose one)priest, sister, wife, husband, mother, father. Wonderful insights. A must read.

This is a wonderful program. I honestly can't say enough good about it. What a way to reach out to the women in your church, or in your neighborhood! I went through the program last summer and had the opportunity this week to serve at a new AOG session. It has been such a blessing to me, especially at a time where not many take the time out of their busy schedule to nuture friendships. I have never felt so truly cared for. The meals we did were not the ones in the book, but we did do meals. Some groups have chosen to leave this part out. I would definitely not do this. There is something so great about having a meal together and also not lifting a finger! You feel so pampered! Can't wait until the author pens a continuation study!

If you can find some mentors to lead you and friends through this study do it, but don't be afraid to start your own group. This is great for a neighborhood study. JE

This is a wonderful idea for strengthening relationships with older and younger generations. We are going to try it in our church. We may alter the program a bit as it is quite ambitious, but I think we can make it work. Be willing to work with it and don't get bogged down in the details of making it look just like the model.

This is a great book and program by a lady that really shows her love for the LORD!

Read this book and then buy more to give to your friends. This is a wonderful group program for older women to mentor younger women.