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A necessary antidote of passionate faithReview Date: 2001-02-10

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Spiritually Pure and Erotic simultaneously!Review Date: 2003-07-30


Absolutely WonderfulReview Date: 2003-02-05

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Summary of this book's central themeReview Date: 2000-03-21
Eric Dowling, Philosophy, University of New South Wales, Australia
LOVE AND SINCERITY, IN THE TOKUGAWA SAMURAI
INTRODUCTION
This essay (a revision of a paper given in October 1998 to the ASACP Conference at the University of New South Wales) seeks to explore the extent to which the motives of love and sincerity (_makoto_) affected the Tokugawa samurai in their thought and action. Section I gives an extremely short summary of my elsewhere published concept of love. Section II then examines the place that this may have had in bushido, and compares and contrasts it with the place of sincerity, and the relation of the two to honor, shame, duty, and the reference group (_seken_).
I---LOVE I begin with an account of love, wide enough to be interesting, to catch as much as possible of what we ordinarily talk about, but narrow enough to yield analytic precision.[1]
First I define, then I elaborate, and I define love as "a disposition with regard to a person which (arising for no reason) shows itself in active concern for the welfare of that person and pleasure in their company".[2]
* It must be a disposition (to feel and behave) rather than itself a feeling or action since you may well love somebody even when you're not thinking of them at all or are (even) feeling atypically displeased with them. We'd then say that though you're not now getting any pleasure, you would, if circumstances were different. * It must arise for no reason (or cause) since we say that we love people not for this or that (which may change) but for "themselves alone"--- a dummy term equivalent to "no reason." "No matter what you do, or how you change, I will always love you." We might say (though I wouldn't) that we love people only for their "essence" and never for their changeable accidents. We love "for better for worse" etc.. Come what may. * A second reason for claiming love to be uncaused is that we conceive it as a gift of our own free will. That's presupposed when we promise. If I am not free, to give my love or withhold it, then I can't rationally say "I, Jack, promise to love you, Jill, till death us do part," etc.. A forced "promise" is no promise, hence the escape from causality. But, much more importantly, it also escapes morality. * I don't think we ever see ourselves as morally obliged to make somebody a free gift. I _am_ morally obliged to return the $20 I have borrowed, but not obliged freely to make a gift of $20. A gift is a gift precisely because it is not owed. I do have a moral obligation to be considerate of each and every person with whom I deal, but I have no obligation to love anybody at all. I'm free to pick and choose about who (if anybody) I'll love.
That needs qualification because ability to give implies ability to promise (if I can give you something then I can promise it; if I can promise it then I must be able to give it). And if I have a moral obligation to keep my promises then, if I promise to love you then I do have a moral obligation to keep that promise to love you. But I can't see (again with qualifications in connexion with children [3.]) that anybody ever has any moral obligation to start loving somebody.
That suggests that love can't be earned or deserved or excited in somebody else, despite Judy Garland's wail that "You made me love you" _etc._. . * Love shows itself in a care for the other's well-being, both actively and passively. Actively, when I do something to advantage my beloved, passively when I rejoice at the other's advantage, or lament their disadvantage. * Love also shows itself in the pleasure the lover takes in his beloved. Jill shows her love in her delight in the company of Jack, and pines in his absence. It's a pleasure to be with someone you love. * This analysis rules out psychological egoism, or the belief that whenever we help or care for anybody we are, in the final analysis, only interested in ourselves, for egoism is supported neither by observation nor by conceptual analysis. * As a matter of observed fact we very often see people helping others, even to their own disadvantage. Observation suggests people are often altruistic. * Neither is it conceptually necessarily true that we are always motivated, in the final analysis, by self-interest. Of course it's true that if Jack wants to do, and succeeds in doing, what Jill wants then Jack does satisfy "his own" want: he does what he wants when he does what Jill wants. But that doesn't imply that what he wants is his own advantage. For, although it must be true that bombers always and only aim at their targets (that's what a target, by definition is---it's an internal accusative), still it doesn't follow that they never "in the final analysis" aim at factories or ships. By parity, the external accusative of Jack's will may well be Jill's advantage, even at the expense of his own. Our Western idea, that we can't (save where we've promised) have a duty to love, sharply diverges from the Asian in that, if I am right, children do not have a duty to love their parents (even though I think that for the most part, parents have a duty to love their children). Kant's view that no person should ever be used as a mere means would stop us rating the welfare of the family over that of the individual, as in traditional Asia's arranged marriages with the desire for children just to carry on the line. (It also disallows the common Western practice of having children just to advance the peace of mind of one or both of the couple who have them.)

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StupendousReview Date: 1999-12-28

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Love, Passions and BetrayalReview Date: 2005-10-05
Love, Passions and Betrayal is about deeply intimate moments and the penalties of those who choose love over all else, regardless of the consequences. Ladies and gentlemen this book is a must READ!!!!!!

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A Must Read!Review Date: 2003-02-07
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incredible and informative reference- a true "10"Review Date: 1997-01-24

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Amazing familyReview Date: 2008-07-22

Luther's SermonsReview Date: 2007-06-24
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